Young Americans are getting pre-nups, even if they aren’t rich

Young Americans are getting pre-nups, even if they aren’t richSign up now: Get ST's newsletters delivered to your inboxMore young Americans under 45 are signing pre-nuptial agreements, rising from 34 per cent in 2022 to 53 per cent in 2026. PHOTO: PIXABAYPublished Jul 07, 2026, 05:18 PMUpdated Jul 07, 2026, 05:30 PMSet as preferred sourceListenSummariseMore young Americans under 45 are signing pre-nuptial agreements, rising from 34 per cent in 2022 to 53 per cent in 2026, reflecting changing financial dynamics and attitudes towards marriage.Women are increasingly initiating pre-nups, including those who out-earn their partners or plan to pause careers, seeking fair financial protections beyond just the wealthy.

Pre-nup apps and legal services have made agreements more accessible and affordable, normalising discussions about finances and helping couples address modern issues like debt and inheritances.AI generatedWASHINGTON – Most couples wait until they are engaged to talk about pre-nuptial agreements. Michelle Kaiser brought it up on the fourth date.

The 38-year-old, who works in fintech, had more complex investments than her future husband, including derivatives and leveraged funds. That, she said, reinforced the importance of talking openly about finances and long-term goals. It did not faze her date: The Bay Area couple married in May with a pre-nup in place.

“It’s just a great way to talk about how you view money, what’s important to you, what are your assets heading into this,” said Kaiser, who works at Equitybee, a startup. And the sooner discussions about pre-nups start, the better, she said. “Before deep feelings come about.”

The financial dynamics of marriage are changing – and so are the agreements couples make before saying “I do”. As people marry later, and women’s earnings grow, a majority of young Americans are securing pre-nups, according to a recent Harris Poll survey of 2,148 adults conducted for Bloomberg News. Some 53 per cent of engaged or married Americans under age 45 said they had signed such an agreement as of May, up from 41 per cent of Gen Z and 34 per cent of millennials in 2022, when Harris conducted a similar poll.

Although there is no official data on the number of US pre-nups or who is initiating them, family-law attorneys say they have seen a wave of new demand, with women asking about them as often as men do, and not just among the rich.“It used to be mostly men and generally the wealthier spouse who would ask for a pre-nup,” said Andrea Vacca, a family law attorney in Manhattan.“Now it’s everyone: Women, lower-earners, couples who are saying ‘I don’t want my parents’ divorce’.

People have planned their lives up until this point, and they want to plan for marriage.”Couples are marrying at older ages than in the past, giving them more time to build wealth and financial know-how. In 2025, the average age for a first marriage was 28.

4 for women and 30.8 for men, more than three years older than in 2005, according to the US Census Bureau. And because they are marrying later in life, couples are looking to protect a broader range of concerns, including inheritances, student debt and frozen eggs or embryos.

At the same time, data show marriage is increasingly an institution of the well-educated and well-off, who can be expected to have more assets and potential earnings.Women in particular are wedding with more wealth than older generations: They are graduating from college at higher rates, earn more money and have brighter career prospects.Vacca, the Manhattan attorney, said pre-nup requests at her firm, Vacca Family Law Group, have more than doubled in the past three years, driven primarily by women.

Many of the couples she works with have millions of dollars in income and assets. But, she added, even those with significantly less are looking for ways to craft a fair arrangement in case of divorce.The rising popularity of pre-nups has fuelled an industry of lawyers, apps and even a dedicated podcast with merch.

Candid conversations on social media, as well as the much-publicised wedding of a billionaire pop star and her Super Bowl champion husband, have reinforced the importance of protecting financial interests.Talking about pre-nups used to be seen as taboo, a first step on the path to eventual divorce. “It was always very difficult to get kids to do pre-nups.

It was a tough ask,” said Robert Cohen, a well-known divorce lawyer who has represented Melinda French Gates and Chris Rock in their divorces.But the proliferation of ugly tabloid divorces, plus the spectre of a massive generational wealth transfer from baby boomers, has made pre-nups a standard conversation.“Now it’s much different; everybody with the slightest wealth or with the anticipation of wealth is looking to have a pre-nup,” he said.

He estimates his firm, Cohen Clair Lans Greifer & Simpson, now churns out more than ever before – as many as 100 agreements a year.More on this topicSick of swiping, some daters would r